I voted.

To no one, but I voted.

I have been mulling over a lot lately to whom  I should vote, or whether I should vote or not. I couldn't come up with a solid answer. Maybe I have lost all hope, but still last time when I did not vote, some one else did.Yeah, I became  victim  of thapay mafia. (When  a person don't show up, party workers vote). So this time I did not let that happened at least. 

I went there, went to the paper work, just didn't stamped on  voting ballot sheet. Folded the unstamped ballot sheet, drop them tin the box. Done.

 I know my vote will go in garbage, but I didn't give them chance to   vote on my behalf.  I just did what I felt is right!

My sis, dad and bro went for voting in the morning around 9.It was my sis's and bro's first time voting. They were super excited. Mom and I, went there at noon after lunch. Our poling station was Metropolitan school. I met my aunt, her 18 yrs daughter, and two neighbors as well.  They told us to  headed 1st floor. It was freaking hot, but every  room was choke full. Lines were coming out side the rooms.

Lets see, what will happen . Latest news is that Jamat-e-Islami has boycotted besides PML from Karachi. They are are accusing a rival party of rigging and violence.

Did you notice ?

Tomorrow, Pakistan is gonna vote. Yayyy  !!!!


But did you notice that none, not a single   politician spoke about progress, prosperity, development, betterment for this country. No one talked about  restoring electric power,  economy, and reducing violence.
I haven't heard  word "good governance." These things are actually not their agenda. They all have home in on  winning this election, by hook or cook, so they could be in power.  Now we know we have multiple political party system,  everyone will get enough chance to loot properly.

They so some much against each other ( in front of us, I reckon) that in every telly show instead of telling us about their manifesto,  they are grabbing each others collar.

Please, kindly tell me why I vote you ?

Too late, huh !

Every politicians fancy him self some sort of prophet, and why not people are blindly following them.

If you wanna vote, vote wisely.  Vote the candidate, who will do something for your area, city, not to some party. If these so called political parties, and their leaders  had to do something better for us, they  would have had done long ago.And  no one can finish corruption just in 90 days, this is sabz bagah dekhna,  and there can't  be  naya Pakistan, if we don't want a naya Pakistan.

FB Page.

Oh boy, don't ask how does it feel like having  days off.

Just watching T.V with my dad, yeah mostly election transmission, Modern Family and Fareeb, a Turkish drama serial, drinking some 6 cuppa tea in a day.

Also working on how to get Facebook comment option on my blog, becasue lots of my friends are not that smart who could figure out to leave  comments over here, you know, always-logged-in FB people, don't bother to come here. Mean, big fat mean people.

  Mazak eik taraf, FB is  convenient for many, and it is like whole world is over there. yahoo, MSN, and AOL , my space are oldies.

 Have I succeed in  it?

No, I am dumber than all, and almost messed up blog HTML. It is so complicated. Like, codes are in two parts: 1st one is easy one,  I added it on CSS of my blog, worked,  but the 2nd one which says " place the code for your plugin wherever you want the plugin to appear on your page" is recipe for disaster. I want that comment box appear after my post, but there seems no way. Real fitna.

Help me, how can I add comment box :( ?

So instead of adding FB comments on my blog,  I decided to have made my FB Page LOl.

Well, at  first I wasn't that taken in starting my own page, but anyway, everyone has  a FB page these days, so why not me ? And this is  an " IN " thing. I am still not saying I deserve it. I just made it. It is more personal. Gonna use it like peeps use Twitter.com___ I just had a dream, I just pee, etc, etc. 

One a serious note it connects bloggers with readers, and gives good following.  Its population is around is around 960,919,060.  And I think it is right time to have of my own, I  am doing this blogging thing since last  three years. wow. 

I dunno how necessary is to make one's page, but it seems like a age of social media, doesn't? If you are not updating, you are no where. I have  tried few sited for the sake of my blog like: bloggers.com/izdiher, better blogger network, and Google +. Some helped me to gain followers, some not. Most boring is Google  + and Better Blogger Network.  No one talks over there.  Only thing is that I wouldn't spread thin in this cyber world for the sake of promoting my blog. Hell, it is a headache.  So if my FB page gets some peeps, I would tail off to FB. Seriously, how come mainstream people manage this much social sites?

Yeah, right ! If any one has to read my posts, they will, and they will bother to be here.

Shelly has already liked my page...OMG, 1  liked.....it just got created.  I am gonna be so famous !

Click it. Like it.

facebook.com/Izdiher 

How to make a FB Page :

It is quite halwa. You can also make one for your blog, or for any other purpose.

At the left of your Facebook's home page there is this option, create  a page.

You can go direct there via clicking this :  https://www.facebook.com/pages/create.php

On that page you will have so many options, like, what kinda page you wanna create: Local Business, Entertainment, Cause or Community...etc, etc.

Apparently blog is technically a website, so you gotta click on brand or  product, which will  immediately give you options to choose category. Website is on second last one. Click it.

Rest is easy, you are not stupid. Do it your self. 

  If you have your own  FB page, and I dunno, then leave its link on my comment, I will love to like your precious page.  

 If you don't have one yet.....make  one !

Election 2013

Aby yar.....What is this?
Government  announced yesterday, very clearly that  schools are gonna be closed from 8th May till  13th May on account of general  election.  Since morning I was fancying 4 days off, but someone jinxed it. At 7'o clock news  they said tomorrow ( 8th may) is on.  We have given the off circulars.  I am sure no will come tomorrow. To whom I will teach .....empty class rooms ?

I haven't made up my mind to whom I am gonna vote. Actually I never voted. This time I was thinking about giving it  to General Musharraf because he seemed right to me to run this country. Then he not eligible, and  his party boycotted, I am not voting. No one else  seems legit  to me. Same faces, same manifesto, same  crap. Neither I am following anything about it.

Take a chill pill.

I desperately wanna smash my computer. This *&^*% thing ain't only goddamn slow, hangs after every 5 minutes. Pure pain in neck ! My brother is saying it's RAM or something, I dunno but something like that, which   has been wrecked. And my brother is so busy this week to fix this up. Only me and my God knows how I am working on it.

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If something is going wrong,  like injustice,  hypocrisy, any bad stuff, etc, etc, you know things like that,  in our personal life or in our surrounding, we should not hold back. There is no need.  We have every right to be angry. And if we don't act out that  means we are behis___apathetic.

But in real life we get angry for other reasons too, which  sometimes are  not that significant. In the nut shell,  it is a dangerous thing to be.

 There is one saying something like that  the most powerful among is the one who keeps his anger under control.

And I am sure we all want to stay cool as much as possible, though sometimes this goes outta control that we don't realize what the hell we are saying. Well, actually mostly it goes otta control, innit? We scared the hell outta  other peeps, and when we  realize what we just said in anger, we regret it later. Yes,  this mean we have anger issue. We are hurting others. This emotion is turning   violence leading  to destructive and violent behavior.

But what is if  we are not angry but someone else: yelling at us. talking trash about us:   Bit your tongue, what else? becasue answering back would only fuel the fire, nothing else. The person who is angry is in no mood of listening, so no matter what genuine explanation you give them, will go in vain. Better be quite and let them let it all out.

 When ever I become angry:

1.  I go to wash room and splash water on my face. It brings my temperature down.

2. Change  position:   If I am angry and I am sitting, I will  stand up, if  I'm  standing, will sit down, start walking. Will do  something to distract my self. I also start cleaning my room, or ironing cloths. 
 
3. I also  mull over  why I get angry, or  what makes me angry. Is this becasue of  people, some specific people ?or stuffs ? someone insulting me constantly ? verbally attacking me ? my point not getting across.

4. When I have honestly figured out  the real and realistic reasons,  try to avoid those situations which makes me that angry. Distance my from those people becasue  no matter how much you confront them, or warn them, some just don't get it. Better is to  find some constructive way to blow off steam, otherwise it will hurt you and nothing else. I mostly write down on  whether on a piece of paper or on my blog. That makes me feel at least tad better. 

5. Last but not least forget and forgive. Which is so much difficult thing to do. At least to me.  I remember each and everything: good or bad, all my life.

Are you the one who easily get pissed off?

If yes, then I would love to know how you blow off steam ?

They need to go.

 

You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend, or a new acquaintance — you don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and continues to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go. —Daniell Koepk