Sunday, December 2, 2012
Let man be man, and woman be woman.
Today I'm gonna talk about war on men..... which is saying today's men are not taken in getting married, they are becoming lazy, and guess what all blame is on the rise of feminism/ independent woman.
Before I talk further, let me clear you something, I ain't a feminist at all. I love the way I am, I love the fact that I am a woman. I never tried to compete with men, because we are not for competition.
God made man and woman from one soul, for each other. Both are capable of everything. And no one can kick against it. However, we have differences too. We are assigned to do different functions, different roles. In some case they are smart, in some cases we, women are. God gave few things to him for some purpose, and few to us for some purpose. We are same, yet different, and this should be like that.
Though I did not like what they said about us. How could they say women are not women any more ?
We were the one who were considered inferior. We took stand for ourselves, we stood up for our rights, respect, and equality, and and not only that we shared the burden, and sometimes took all on our own shoulders. We never said we will become men and to be saddled with everything on our own alone. We just asked for equality.
According to that article we are the one who are not letting them to do what they were supposed to do. They are pissed off at today's ultra smart, successful, and independent women. This is the reason they are giving of not getting married
You know what, they really need some good spanking, after that everything will be fine. Life has always been so easy for them, and now it is super easy, see how they are talking !
Huh....So damn clever !
Please some one tell these lazy asses, if we women are not women anymore, then they too have became just a sperm donors!
What people misunderstood about that article is that they thought she was talking about inequality of men and women in workforce, which is not the case. She talked about men and women roles in a family structure, and how it has changed over.
Not only that I also couldn't disagree where she said it is women lost.
If we see, it turned out a zero sum game for us. It is our lost, rather then theirs. They are still same, enjoying almost everything. And since we shared the burden, they have become more carefree and irresponsible. Now they are running away from taking responsibilities. So let them be what the hell they were !
The head of family.
Today's women is super woman, no wonder. She is multitasking, without whining. Some earning more than men. Though call me old fashion, it is not her responsibility to run a family. Technically, biologically it is his responsible to take care of his family, kids, dogs and everything !
You are the man, this is your family, this is your house, these are your kids__________ feed them, take care of them, etc, etc. She should only contribute.
I once heard somewhere he should be the boss, and she should be manager in the house. The logic behind is that in the structure of any institution, whether it is family, sate, army, school or office. There is also one head...a head of state, a head of school, a head of office, etc, etc. And this place better suites to man. Women are good in managing.
It not only make sense to me, I have seen this in my own home too, and talking from my own experience, the whole scenario has just changed into something not so good.
For so long my father was sole breadwinner of our family. Things were quite different. Then due to some health problem he had to packed in his business, then my mom became our provider. He is unhappy. She is under pressure. I don't want to say anything to those men who can't do. I know it's there nature to do that. When they can't do it dent their ego. It had hurt my father so much. .
I also meet many women who are supporting their families happily, and they is not much conflict________ doing perfectly well, balancing every act. I am just saying when there are man to do so, why we saddle our self so much. Burden should not be on her alone. It is called nature. Nature made us like that. If one understand this simple law of nature, then the rest of the things will become so easy to cotton on.
And when we talk about equality then this financial burden should not be on one person only....not only on man either. It is also wrong that he only be a breadwinner of his family. I accept that. Only he earns, and other eat, is no way, especially in today's world.. So both should contribute, and I reckon those people who do that, they make happy families.