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Saturday, January 5, 2013

Distance

I am little emo right now. My aunt just has left for Canada. Dunno when I will see her again. Soon my sis will go there too.

I just hate it. Canada is million miles  away. It has taken so many peep of mine. Even  my so many fav peeps  are millions miles away. I am definitely  not happy with this distance thing.  And when I think about Fi ...my sis, going there too, it freaks  me out.

I can't stop them. This is fate. This is life.  Those places would  be better for them.  I just miss everyone who has left Karachi.

This aunt is not just my aunt. She is like a mother...............Someone with whom I spent my whole childhood. She also loves me like a daughter. There is no parda between us. I do cry in front of her, I yell, and still she never says anything to me. The way she puts up with me,  hardly any  one can do.  I just do whatever I want  do, and she never judge me. Her love for me, my family and her other nieces and nephews   is just so unconditional.


When her immigration came in 2008, I was sooo soo damn angry. I didn't want her to go. I cried like hell.  Today when she is going back after spending one amazing month with us I have been  crying so much.

 ( Come back soon ;(...I love you so much ).


28 comments:

  1. Will you ever get to visit them there? Big hugs to you, my friend~

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  2. I can relate to this. It is really hard to see our loved ones going abroad for a long time. I'm glad that you had the chance to spend a lovely month with her. Take care!

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  3. ooohhh... I send you lot of hugs Izdiher.Think that things could be worst! Nowadays technology keep us almost as close as we want! and you never know what are you going to do and where are you going to go in the future darling. keep smiling! everything will be fine

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  4. it must be hard for her as well...

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  5. At least your aunt is able to return for visits. She's still a part of your life.

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  6. awww i feel you on that... being far from your love ones is not easy... Keep your chin up!

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  7. well there would come a time that people will leave but
    i guess leaving doesnt always mean being gone forever
    just keep in touch

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  8. cheer up, Izdiher (hugs)

    she'll be back to Karachi to meet you again :)

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  9. Hopefully she'll come back soon! :D

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  10. Don't be sad :-) She will come back to you soon !!!

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  11. awww dear. now i feel like crying. saying goodbye aint an easy thing to do.

    Silla

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  12. Aww I'm sorry :S
    Distance is a horrible thing but inshAllah God will give you both patience and strength to deal with this distance :)

    Fatma x
    www.sugaredgold.blogspot.com

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  13. So sad Izdiher, love can hurt but it also brings great joy.

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  14. It's hard when the people we love and like move far away from us. I hope that you won't stay sad forever.

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  15. Hello Izdiher,
    I'm so sorry for that.
    I know distance makes things so hard and difficult.
    But I think it's better to know that a person is far away and is having a better life rather than being in place and not feeling so good.
    This is life. People try to find what is best for them.
    Maybe going away it is not better or maybe it is, the future will tell.
    Send you a big HUG!!!!!

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  16. And don't forget:
    DISTANCE MEANS SO LITTLE WHEN SOMEONE MEANS SO MUCH!!!!!

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  17. ohhh:( i have the same feeling when i was 16 years old and my beloved sister left Pakistan

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  18. I know it must be hard for the ones you love to be so far away. I am sure though you can still stay in frequent contact - the internet helps so much with families oceans apart!

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  19. Awwwh ...Gooodbyes are really hard I can understand :)

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  20. Some people are not meant to stay forever...They are just to make you feel love..They are destined to make you strong to move on in your life:)

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  21. you have some very intense posts with all of your feeling being shared. This is what blogging is a place were we can let out those feeling, yet still have some control. I will follow your blog, thank you for visiting mine.

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  22. Thinking about you, Friend! Big Hugs!!

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  23. Maybe you could also visit her in Canada someday... It's difficult when special people go away and we couldn't see them for a long time. I left my family when I was 20 and came back home after eleven years... When I came back home, my sister left for another country...

    I guess it's just the physical place that sets us apart from the people we love... but the sentiments and love you've shared together will always be there...

    Lots of love Izdiher :)

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  24. distance makes love grow fonder.. and i 'm sure that with all the new technology you will miss her a little less.
    I hate distance too but sometimes it helps us remind how many things and people we take for garanted.

    I want to thank you for your sweet comment on my blog and for the chance to let me discover your blog. I have been reading it for the last hours and i love it ! I love the topics you talk about and how u post girly stuff some times. It'll be my pleasure to follow you, puls i like your country! :)

    i just hit the gfc button and can't wait for the new post, maybe we will see you smiling.

    hugs.
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  25. this post left me awestruck...but all i would like to say is distance doesn't matter at all if u really love each other :)

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