Wednesday, March 11, 2015
Lets face it.
In the most controversial BBC's documentary "India's Daughter" by a British film maker, Leslee Udwin, the two alleged defense lawyers for the rapists, ML Sharma and AK Singh, in the Delhi gang rape of Joyti Singh's case, were neither in courts, nor defending their clients as any paid lawyer does.
Why Udwin choose them is questionable, which only she can answer, as it is her film, however, if you watch the film with open eyes and without feeling offensive, their statements like " Our cultural is the best culture. There is no place for a woman." Women should not go out after 7pm, 8pm and 9pm," 'If my daughter was having premarital sex and moving around at night with her boyfriend, I would have burnt her alive. I would not have let this situation happen. All parents should adopt such an attitude,"and etc, etc, were their opinions, personal statement, and in reality this is a reality of not only India but of the whole South Asia.
Those two men spoke the mentality of our socety.
Give them some credit.
Whatever they were saying was reflection of this society. We are all reflection of our societies. And lets face it. We treat women like shit. Our society is sexist, and misogynist.We think like that.
People are sexually frustrated, sorry to say.
She goes out for groceries or even work with fear of her honor, izet..kuch ho na jai. Mera daman per koi anch na aji. .
In our society women who is presentable and out, alone or with man who is not her Father, brother, husband or son is awarah................a whore. Young girls going out with her boy friend after dark, having fun is not digest-able.
In our society all the curse words start with woman and ends with it.
Maybe my perdesi readers don't get it and find this post utterly depressing, but it is God damn true.
They still don't know, a woman can have her own mind, her own choices and her own life. She is a human first.
Go, ask anyone.