It is for a reason.

There is always one or two videos on I have no friends due to Social Anxiety whenever I open YouTube page. 

I never have had any social anxiety going, any desire to fit in anywhere but not much friends. And I was the happiest. It was because I was true to my real self.  My biggest mistake was becoming social. The problems/trauma  I have had was the ugliest.  

My life learned lesson is that accept your real self. 

If you are an introvert, embrace it. If you have no friends. Be happy. Everything is not for everyone.  Actually, we hurt ourselves by going against our nature. Where it is written that we all have to have to be social and have so many friends otherwise we are  losers and awkward. 

Scam Alert !

Yes, we need people. These people are every where. So don't worry. Every person is not for you either. I know this is sad. We want to be with certain people or group  of people. Reality is that they might be good individual, could not be our match, though. 

I guess it is also more about of our desired to be liked by everyone. To be popular, I guess. We all want to be loved, liked, appreciated, validated and accepted. 

Be aware. 

This whole ordeal  could be so hectic and toxic because you are compelling and struggling to be someone else or somewhere else.  Having social anxiety is a cue for us to understand that we are not design for social life. There is no award in being social butterfly. There is no such thing as friends. 

 Then there is issue of speaking to strangers. It is difficult for some. I can understand. Take your time. Practice !

Funny thing. No one cares. People forget people. 

Actual problem loneliness because of having no real relationships. That is alarming and problematic. Humans long for meaningful, fulfilling and deep relationships. Unfortunately, we try to find it in others in the name of friendship from random strangers. Why would anyone be with us, talk to us, or be our  friend? Here comes the role of blood relations and community. 

Ask yourself.

 What do you want?

Someone to accept you as who you are?

Or you want whole world to like you?

My life is blessed with less people around me. I have no such desire to fit in. It is peaceful.