“Everyone
says that love hurts, but that's not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection
hurts. Everyone confuse these things with love, but in reality, love is
the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes us
feel wonderful again.”
And "LOVE" does not necessarily mean to be doing all the time what rabbits are famous for doing (although I am sure they love that, also--grin!).
God loves EVERYONE! Am I to love only one? No...I am free to spend the love I have, so long as it is outgoing, and not self-serving.
I feel certain that on the other side of this life, we shall be inundated with love. Everywhere, always, never boring, never saturating. (Do we call that "Poly-unsaturated?"--heheh)
Oh my dearest Izdiher, how wise you are to differentiate that. It's so true - people always say love hurts but as you say it is not love but neglect, selfishness, self-centredness, a can't be bothered attitude - these are the things (or acts) that hurt us. Love cures.
Love is not hurt!! how can i believe that..Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. thats true!! Love is something that always keeps us alive keeps us happy! A person who is waiting for love will tell you how it hurts to our lives!!!
i think it's not love which hurts it's our expectations which makes us disappointed and then we human beings confuse emotions..love with disappointment...love ever heals the pain.
I agree, love never hurts. But it is the process of love that hurts. Just as up implies down and drunk implies sober, we cannot begin to appreciate the value of caring for someone until we understand the pain of not being cared for.
Great post. Currently in my life I'm content with not being in a relationship and just focusing on me, but I still express love to my friends and family. Without it I would crumble. I definitely agree that we should follow each other. <3
Interesting Post. However I think sometimes love can hurt it for me. If I see someone I love so much and they are in pain of have died then I think that is when I would say Love hurts for me.
You know, I have never thought of it that way but it is true. xo
ReplyDeletei agree with you.. i thought about it too, lately and i came to same conclusion.. :)
ReplyDeleteSo true and beautifully said. Love is really what makes the world alive.
ReplyDeleteTake care Izdiher. xx
How very very true..I love this post Izdiher!
ReplyDeleteVery nice, and like some others I never quite thought of it that way, but you're right.
ReplyDeleteCute ;)
ReplyDeleteSo true dear Izdiher, it's the lack of love that hurts.
ReplyDeletexoxoxo ♡
life without love is painting without colours.
ReplyDeleteBut love does have side effects especiaaly when there is a betrayal.
Well said! I couldn't agree more. It is not love but selfishness, neglect and lack of commitment that really hurt!
ReplyDeleteLove Rules....!
ReplyDeletethat makes a lot of sense two thumbs up for that
ReplyDeleteVery well said!
ReplyDeleteWhat a great post Izdiher!
ReplyDeleteAnd "LOVE" does not necessarily mean to be doing all the time what rabbits are famous for doing (although I am sure they love that, also--grin!).
ReplyDeleteGod loves EVERYONE!
Am I to love only one?
No...I am free to spend the love I have,
so long as it is outgoing, and not self-serving.
I feel certain that on the other side of this life, we shall be inundated with love.
Everywhere, always, never boring, never saturating. (Do we call that "Poly-unsaturated?"--heheh)
Oh my dearest Izdiher, how wise you are to differentiate that. It's so true - people always say love hurts but as you say it is not love but neglect, selfishness, self-centredness, a can't be bothered attitude - these are the things (or acts) that hurt us. Love cures.
ReplyDeleteLove is not hurt!! how can i believe that..Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. thats true!! Love is something that always keeps us alive keeps us happy! A person who is waiting for love will tell you how it hurts to our lives!!!
ReplyDeleteRight....I like it :)
ReplyDeleteEverything is a part of everything....
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ReplyDeleteFew months ago I would agreed, but now things have changed and I believe that love hurts.
ReplyDeleteyes :) love indirectly causes all those that hurt us
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i think it's not love which hurts it's our expectations which makes us disappointed and then we human beings confuse emotions..love with disappointment...love ever heals the pain.
ReplyDeleteBut how often can we truly feel it, without the feeling being distorted by emotions such as loneliness and the fear of rejection?
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Love is having close relationship with loneliness & hurts. Love might caused all those loneliness & hurts indirectly happen to us ~ =}
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even if love doesn't hurt.. it sometimes causes pain.
ReplyDelete❤ Ella
very true
ReplyDeleteThis is a really lovely quote. (:
ReplyDeleteI agree, love never hurts. But it is the process of love that hurts. Just as up implies down and drunk implies sober, we cannot begin to appreciate the value of caring for someone until we understand the pain of not being cared for.
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ReplyDeleteLove is a very strange feeling. There are times when we need it and other times not. It can be very complicated at times.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. Currently in my life I'm content with not being in a relationship and just focusing on me, but I still express love to my friends and family. Without it I would crumble. I definitely agree that we should follow each other. <3
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Lovely post. Every body has defines love with own experience. Love your family and dearer ones is a great experience.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with everything you wrote. Lovely blog!
ReplyDeleteInteresting Post. However I think sometimes love can hurt it for me. If I see someone I love so much and they are in pain of have died then I think that is when I would say Love hurts for me.
ReplyDeletenice post,,,,,,,,
ReplyDeleteWe blame everything on love when something hurts...but love is the purest thing in the world. I think we have to relearn the words that we use ;)
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