In my BA English book there was one chapter "The Door Swings Open." It was about Elizabeth Black__ the first female doctor, how she got admission in medical collage( which in my eyes was not that big deal because at first her college was just not sure to take her, nothing else, so instead of saying a straight no, they put it before student body who approved it anyhow. That is it ) and blah blah.
We even had a discussion in that class whether women should get professional education or not.
I said NO_____not in our culture. And I still stand by my No, because they waste it !
My point at was that she was someone from 18-19 century if I ain't wrong, and we in 2010 were discussing whether we should or not !! Amazing. Now it is 2013, things are much like same. Still more than 40 percent of girls never enroll in school. We are not getting the concept of " education." This higher and and professional stuff comes later.
Actually this whole education system in urban areas is beyond my
understanding. So freaking messed up. Poor, rural people_____who cares for them !
My other reason of saying no was that we should not ignore the ground realities that despite having more female students in professional schools rather than male students, though only 10 percent from them are really "that professional working in their related fields."
Yes, in rural areas no one stop anyone from getting respectable education.
Due to higher number of girls studding in professional collage, guys don't get admission, who could in the end at least be professional unlike girls.
It is a fact. Hardly 10 percent from them really go for the career. I personally know lots of girls who are my friends, relatives, and neighbors...highly qualified, but brain washed. So proudly says, OUR GIRLS DON'T DO THIS. Like others who are working, professional or studying honestly are whores. Some how they who don't let their girls do this, are honest.
Then there are one who are engineers, MPA. MBA, D-Pharmacy done girls and working in schools as a teacher.
Why they studied such stuff when in the end they have to be school teacher?
They could have gone to some normal community collage, get their B.Ed and M.Ed degree, and be a professional teacher but no, no ! It is just a filed which is consider respectful, and we all know how we look upon other females and what name we give to them who work in offices. Teaching is noble. I can bet majority of them are teachers because this is what they are allowed t do. No heart, no passion in it.
There are hardly very few females I know personally who get these professional or
even higher education merely because they wanted to get it, other wise
most of them are those who are actually getting it for passing their
time. And there are many who want to be doctors or engineers just cause
these are " respectable and honorable" education for girls.
In the nut shell, there should be a quota system like it was in back days, because we as a nation is still stuck in pass. And only those girls should be allowed to get higher and professional education who are not brain washed, who will pursue that career. And let the guy study.
No, I ain't taken in changing this society, or its mind set. They are not living in some 18 or 17th century.They should have common sense. And there is one thing, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.