People say my honesty amaze them, yes but just here.
People say you are lively, yes, I am but just here.
In reality people assume me rude, when I talk, an when I don't talk, they still assume me rude.
And what I learned from all my experiences( read: stupidity), for survival, just say yes, yes, hmm hmm, you are right , you are right, thank you, thank you. No need to give your two cents, you ideas, advices to anyone.