The
word explanation is a noun and pronounce as /ɛkspləˈneɪʃ(ə)n/.
It means a statement or
account that makes something clear or a reason or justification given for an
action or belief. In simple words either you are clearing or giving
justification of your act.
It is only given when 'asked.'
A wise and honest person knows when and where to give it and in front of whom.
It is only given when 'asked.'
A wise and honest person knows when and where to give it and in front of whom.
When, a lie, on the
other hand is also a noun, pronounce as
/lʌɪ/, is a statement
used intentionally for the purpose of deception.
And both are totally different but connected.
“Explanations are
what people use when they need to lie.”
― Steven Erikson,
The Bonehunter
And this what recently happened to me couple of days ago. Someone was trying to be over efficient by giving explanation to cover him/her own self. That also government level official information. I didn't even asked it. But that person was so desperate to give clarification. I was 'forced' to listen.
And this what recently happened to me couple of days ago. Someone was trying to be over efficient by giving explanation to cover him/her own self. That also government level official information. I didn't even asked it. But that person was so desperate to give clarification. I was 'forced' to listen.
Giving explanation in front of someone who is street smart, educated, and knows the whole story is like making yourself look like an idiot. Cherry on the top I wasn't buying it at all. Therefore, that was merely useless excuses to cover up lies and waste of my precious time.
Red Ruben says “The
only correct actions are those which demand no explanation and no
apology.” That explanation for hours proved that there is something very fishy. It made the whole situation more suspicious.
If you think you are honest, and everything you are doing is nothing objectable, then chill dude!
If you think you are honest, and everything you are doing is nothing objectable, then chill dude!
Problem is that
people assume that everyone is fool like them. Even in this age of information people are still so naïve
that they bother to cover up their lies in the name of unnecessary and unwanted
explanation and that also in such illiterate manners that it becomes unbearable
after few minutes.
At least to me. I couldn't take it for long. It became apparent on my face.
Isn’t it called
living in fool’s paradise?
Bravo to the idiocy.
And more bravo to
those who listened it with smiles.
Lies
are lies, no matter how small or big they are. Telling one lie makes all your truth questionable.
By giving
justifications with made up stories which are not adding up at all will only
make things worst. It is a universal truth that lairs get caught in their own lies, sooner or later and I guess that is why it is
said that lies have no legs. It can’t stand. It can’t walk.
Baltasar Gracian says a single lie destroys a
whole reputation of integrity. According to Agartha Christi it is a sign of
weakness.
Because as soon as we lost credibility and trust of people, we automatically lose their respect.
Author Micheal Kerr says:
"As soon as we become known as a person who can't be trusted to keep their word, it's one of the quickest ways to lose respect.
And why making the whole story more suspicious?
“The truth comes naturally,”
says psychologist Bruno Verschuere, “but lying takes effort and a sharp,
flexible mind.” That is why an honest person never gives long explanation. He/she answer
clear cut and that also when asked. He/she wouldn’t even bother to clarify because no one question or object his/her action at first place.
clear cut and that also when asked. He/she wouldn’t even bother to clarify because no one question or object his/her action at first place.
Behavior science and psychologists call such people
pathological liar- someone who is habitual of fabricating stories.
Unfortunate
many lairs think that they can make everyone fool. However, they get succeeded at some extend.
Actually lies are sweet to ears. Truth sound bitter. Therefore, people in general are happy with listening lies and do believe it. That is why, person who lie get away with everything.
Actually lies are sweet to ears. Truth sound bitter. Therefore, people in general are happy with listening lies and do believe it. That is why, person who lie get away with everything.
Researches
also tell that such individuals have low self-esteem. They are abuser, jealous, controlling, manipulator,
defensive, and attention seekers. They lose temper easily, and do exaggeration.
It is
due to their mental condition that they have to tell fabricated stories otherwise a normal person doesn't need such drama.
In the
end, I will quote the few verses of the holy qurran with the hope that it will
bring some shame in those who are not ‘that’ mentally ill but lie to defame and
degrade others.
"And
pray for the curse of Allah on the liars.” (Surah Āli- Imrān 3:61)
And
also:
“...
the curse of Allah be on him if he is one of the liars.” (Surah an-Nūr 24:8)
The
Holy Prophet Muahmmed (pbuh) says:
“Beware
of falsehood! Because falsehood blackens the face.
This
is what I have just seen with my own eyes: The black hearts and black faces. Uttering lies without any shame.
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